The Art of Becoming

Everyone Knows You Can Handle It. That’s the Problem.

Everyone Knows You Can Handle It. That’s the Problem.

Everyone Knows You Can Handle It. That’s the Problem.Rachel Merrill
Published on: 12/09/2026

When everyone knows you can handle it, you can become the default person for everything. Explore the hidden cost of capability — and how to stop adopting every problem you notice.

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Real Change Is Not Sexy

Real Change Is Not Sexy

Real Change Is Not SexyChrista Sutton
Published on: 30/08/2026

Real change rarely looks dramatic. It’s built through small, repeatable actions, imperfect days, and promises kept to yourself - until what once required enormous effort simply becomes part of who you are.

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You Made the Big Decision. Why Don’t You Feel Better Yet?

You Made the Big Decision. Why Don’t You Feel Better Yet?

You Made the Big Decision. Why Don’t You Feel Better Yet?Rachel Merrill
Published on: 15/08/2026

Why can the right decision still leave you feeling unsettled? Explore the messy aftermath of major change and how patience, stability, and support help a new life feel like yours.

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Did Adulthood Kill Our Laughter?

Did Adulthood Kill Our Laughter?

Did Adulthood Kill Our Laughter?Rachel Merrill
Published on: 08/08/2026

Why does laughter become harder to access as we grow older? An exploration of adulthood, seriousness, and making room for joy before everything is finished.

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